Many men can develop a romantic (or at least sexual) interest in their dance teacher. They then of course have thoughts about seducing her. This is not uncommon or unsurprising. If you spend that much time with a woman and get that close to her, then you will of course start to think about her in this way. Chances are your dance teacher is very attractive too. Most dance instructors are attractive: both physically and personality wise. Dance is a good form of exercise (especially if you do it as a job) so your dance teacher likely has a very good body. Most people interested in dance also have a very good sense of presentation and style, so she probably also does her makeup well and dresses well. This would simply add more to how attractive she is. essentialgamergadgets But what might be even more attractive is her personality. Because dance exudes a lot of sexuality and is very traditional with regards to gender roles your dance teacher will likely have a very engaging and attractive personality. Put all of this together and it is small wonder that you are attracted to her. She is also going to be nice to you, because you are a customer, and this will make you feel that you have a chance. This combination of high attraction and a feeling of potential will make you give serious thought to the possibility of seducing your dance teacher.
Understanding the situation
So you are now at a place where you want to know how to seduce your dance teacher. Before I talk about this some more I want to review the situation. You probably already sense that this is different from other situations where you have wanted to pick up a woman. This is probably why you’ve ended up reading this article. So what issues are there unique to picking up your dance teacher?
You’re not the only student she has. In your mind your dance teacher is a unique person. You see her once or twice a week. You are one of many students she sees in a week. Just think about how many other students she could see in a week. You will then realise that you probably do not ‘pop’ in her head as much as she does yours. So don’t make the assumption that the feelings are likely to be mutual.
You are not likely to be the first student try to pick her up. This carries over from the previous point. Your teacher is probably sensitive to this and can tell if you’re interested. She will therefore likely know before you say anything to her. This means she has possibly already prepared to counter your advances; this is the safe option for her. This will make such a seduction more challenging than others.
There will be implications if you try and fail. I know two dance teachers who have had to ask their students to move to a different teacher after the advances were rejected. However, in both cases it was not the first time that the student tried. Both women had enough experience to be able to continue on. But just think about what might happen if you do try. You need to be prepared for this.
Are there not other women at your dance school? You possibly get a bit too captivated by your teacher to realise that there are other women at your dance school. You are probably more likely to meet with success if you consider other women in the dance school. What’s more, your dance teacher is probably an excellent source if information and advice. You need no wing man when you have a dance teacher who can use the dance teacher network to find out about any other woman in the class. You have probably realised that teachers talk about the students to each other. Not only that, but they typically like it when students get together. That means you can expect some good advice about other female dance students from your teacher.
So there are a number of things to consider before you try to seduce your dance teacher. If after thinking about these things you still want to try picking her up, then there are some things you need to remember.
If you are still sure you want to pick your dance teacher up
She is still a woman so the basics of what she finds attractive are the same for her as they are for any other woman. If you feel that you’re not well skilled at picking up women in general, then that is something that you can learn more about. It is not what I am talking about in this article so I will not go into anymore detail here apart from suggesting that you consider looking at other articles on this website.
There are however some issues unique to the situation that you are in. Because you are a student you are in a weaker position. Typically, women prefer a stronger man. This is probably more so for dance teachers. Like I said above, dance is traditional with regards to the relationship between the sexes. Thus a dance teacher is likely to want a more traditional (and strong) man. Therefore, you need to make sure you come across as a strong man. So do not view your teacher as a person you need to impress. View her as a person who is helping you become a better dancer. When you ensure that it is about you and she is part of your plan, then you will have the dominant position.
This means you might need to change the way you approach dance.
Take action outside of class to improve your dance. Read books on dance, go to other dance events and classes and take action to improve attributes of dance. Maybe you will work on your musicality, or fitness. If you think that the way she is teaching is not ideal for you, then talk to her about it. Do not be unreasonable, she has been teaching for a while, but raise issues so that you do not seem passive and weak. Basically, you are managing your progression in dance and she is there to help you do that.
Women who want to seduce their dance teacher
This article has focused on men. However, women will sometimes want the same thing. The difference here is that the male dance instructor is probably more open to a sexual encounter with a student. I know women who have had sex with their instructor. However, I also know some male dance teachers who have been stalked by their dance students. If you’re trying to form a relationship with a male dance teacher, then realise that he is likely having sex with a couple of his students. And you will need to make him think he would want to leave that for you.
One big don’t
Do not think gifts will work. Gifts make it look like you’re trying to buy attraction. And attraction just doesn’t work like that. You’re not likely to be the only person buying your teacher presents anyway.
I am a social dancer with an interest in learning. I want to make it as easy as possible for you to get to your desired level of whatever partner dancing (Swing, Ballroom, Latin etc.) you do. I have summarized much of what I know in a free e-book you can get here: http://www.dancebetternow.com. I also apply what I know at my dance studio Destine Dance.